There is a certain point in men’s lives when marriage becomes a possibility. There is an age factor or money factor, or he meets a woman that is so good that he thought he could not do better. The reason will vary for each man but the plain fact remains that a man will not marry before he is ready. Period.
Before that time comes, he is dating without the purpose of marriage. He is just looking for good company at the dinner table and/or the bedroom, kitchen floor, backseat of the car, at the bathroom at the bar, wherever.
So how does a girl, who is pre programmed to search for the ONE man who is going to make her happy, how does she date someone who is pre programmed to not marry until his conditions are met?
A girl has to realize that the goals in dating are different. So her tactics have to be different. A girl must look for the signs of readiness: financial security, age that his friend are married, or a desperation on his part to be with you.
If a man is not showing these signs he is just shopping. Most of the dating in a girls life is a man just browsing. He is not looking to buy. He is just window shopping.
If a girl realizes this, she has power. She must learn to date like a man: Date for the purpose of hanging out with someone. Date him because you have fun with him. Date him because he is good in bed. If you know that there is nothing you can do to land that fish, you have a choice you can keep him around and keep looking or cut him loose and get your self a fish you can fry.
If you are dating like a man, then you don’t have to change him, or worry about his family likeing you or anything like that. You just have fun. But don’t stick around too long. You have to keep fishing to catch a bigger fish.
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